I am pink. I am bold. I am bright and intelligent. Many girls like me, some women love me, men even adore me. I am beautiful, anywhere and everywhere I go I am noticed. I am loving, warm and caring. I wear a big smile all the time. I like beautiful things. I enjoy dancing. I am down to earth, approachable, and humble. I am ambitious. I am open to new things.
Exercise 5:
My apartment is cozy and filled with bright colors everywhere! In every room there is pink, pink may unconsciously be my favorite color. This persons room is tidy and organized. On the book shelf there are a variety of books, she enjoys reading and will read almost anything. The shelf consists of biology, chemistry and poetry books, novels, history, many dictionaries. The movie shelf is filled with dramas and comedies and a lot of African movies, very few action movies, this person maybe laid back. The CD holder consists of old school, hip hop, R&B, soul R&B, African music and Rap. This person definently appreciates music. The closet is exceptionally organized a lot of dark colors for winter clothes and the brightest colors for spring and summer clothing. This person owns a lot of brown and black clothing and has way too many shoes! There is no trend in her style except for colors. She values her family and has lots of pictures around the house of her family members. On the walls are favorite poems by Maya Angelou in different color frames. Many stuffed animals are around the room. This person is sensual.
Twenty things I like to do are...
1. watching African movies
2. hang with my childhood friends, really more like cousins.
3. dance infron of my long mirror
4. Act infront of my mirror
5.Sing
6. Eat out at different reasturants
7. Drink wine
8.Listen to music
9. Read
10.Relax, by being pamered. (spa's, manicures, pedicures, waxing, bubble baths)
11.swiming (Good Lawd, knows I can't)
12. yoga
13. boxing and kick boxing
14.Writing
15. Beign alone
16. Running
17. Listen to people(discussions on current events)
18. I love visiting museums and aquariums
19.Hanging with girlfriends, playing games and chatting
20.Studying and Learning
exercise 8
My ideal enviroment is filled with people and there is a little corner just for me. This environment is surrounded with water. Eveyone is doing there own thing. There are lots of food and Margaritas to go around. There are many museums and presidential libraries to see. There are different types of fishes. No birds, no cats, no dogs, no flies(including cock roaches) and they are definently no mice or rats. Everyone is happy, no one is suffering. There is a starbucks and my apple laptop definently accompanies me. All my siblings are right by my side to share the beauty. There are bright colors every where. No cars buses or trains. Everything is close by and everyone owns a horse. I however own a white and pink horse.There are no rules everyone just does what is right and care about the community as a whole.
Exercise 9:
My ideal day
It's 5:30am and I am up bright early filled with energy. I start my morning with a fresh cup of foldgers coffee, I would then check my email and listen to my voicemails, taking notes so I remember everything. I turn to the morning news while creating my daily agenda using my much broader weekly agenda. Next, I open the glass sliding door that leads to the beach in the back of my white house. I start by running along the lake front and then I follow it up with some yoga. I watch the sun rise then head back in my home and prepeare for my day at work, I own my own hospital or I work in Coorperate Law. While at the office, I take care of important business, and work hard to make sure my clients and or patients are satisfied. I socialize with my employees; and try to maintain a strigent boss employee relationship while being very cool with them. I spend fifteen minutes on a phone conference with my siblings and my mother. Then I buzz my father to see how he is doing. After a short day at the office I meet up with a few friends(men and women) for dinner, we discuss everything from marraige life and our children to current events. We spend the last few hour of the dinner discussing an ongoing project that we are forecasting in Africa and discuss our next trip to Africa; we discuss our goals are in helping the country become better developed, promoting scholarship and impacting the government. Then I head home in my two door (whatever year it is)BMW and I call my husband to confirm that his had dinner. When I get home I'll have some wine, with my hubby and discuss our day(if he isn't/wasn't a part of the dinner discussion) then end my day with a nice bubble bath in our medium sized jacuzzi.
(That was fun. I am laughing but I can see that being an ideal day for me.)
Exercise 9:
Fantasy Analysis
The elements in my ideal day analysis that are essential is the success, close relationship with my family and projects in helping Nigeria become a better place.
The elements that can be eliminated however are the BMW, the jaccuzi, living in a beach house.
The unessential elements are watching the sunrise from the lake front. I can have a area in my home office or bedroom(anywhere) that will allow me to enjoy that sun rise!
The indispencible element are the most vital things to my heart. If I have to leave everything else and just deal with the essentials, I would still be happy with myself.
The elements that already exist is the daily talk with 1 of my 4 younger siblings. At least once a week we have a phone conference with my mom and sometimes the other siblings and dad are present.
I currently do not have that(whatever year) BMW niether do I have a hubby nor am I a boss. (But I am "bosslady")
The walls that are currently between me and my ideal life is time, me completing my education and money.
Activities I love....
From the front of my mirror to my audience.
This week I performed a short monologue of Trudy
This was not planned my younger sister kept telling other family member that I could play a good crack head and the scene was extremely hilarious. She knew this because we usually work on my one woman act together. She gives me constructive criticism about my act and often record me with her phone. She showed my cousin one of the short recordings on her phone and she asked me to please perform it so everyone can laugh. It took a while and the whole party to convince me, but I ended up doing it. It felt good because I had not performed infront of an audience in a while. Everyone was laughing and when I was done a few people told me I should pursue an acting career. What I enjoyed most was how I captured their attention. I like the feeling and the challenge of keeping my audience interested. It made me feel like, "BOSS LADY". Sometimes I think I might enjoy being a "Nollywood Star"(Nigerian Hollywood) but that is not a priority, I think it is more of an hobby!
I would like to see you act! you must be good at it...have you thought about taking a theater class?
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