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Hello Friends and thanks for following my blog. Please comment on this page versus facebook. This blog is not for entertainment. It is a more intimate blog that is part of a course that I am currently taking with professor Rockquemore @ UIC, a course titled "Leadership For Change". In this course we are learning about different types of leaders, more importantly finding out who we are and finding the leader in us! I appreciate you following along and will try to keep you as informed as possible. Our Assignment are usually based on readings from 4 books 1.Bell Hooks, All About Love 2.Susan Komives Exploring Leadership: For College Students Who Want To Make a Difference 3. Parker Palmer, Let Your Life Speak 4. Barbara Sher. Wishcraft: How to Get What You Really Want. and additional reading from our Blackboard site.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Do u "Nomi"?

Interviewing mom/ dad over the phone str8 from Naija... Recorded Telephone conversation:

Me : I am doing an assignmeent for class and I need you to tell me what I was like before six years old? Can you do that?.
Mommy: (Laughing) Okay.
Mommy/Daddy:(Dad was in the background) You were a character! You were exremely entertaining! Although you were a kid, u had a fast and sharp response for everything. When the driver would bring you home from school and neighbors saw you they would say, "APATA" (Which was teh name of my school at the time; it is one of the best primary schools in Nigeria)your response would be "APATA, Iyanlaya e!"(Your mothers, mother is Apata... doesn't sound so good translated, but it is a verbal insult) Everyone knew you and some of them you didn't know; but they love you! Some people still ask about you. Any where you went you stood out! You liked dancing and listening to things... you would listen to the tele; but you never sat and watched it much. The only way we knew you were listening because you would repeat things from the tele like commercials, or a funny part of the showing. You were nice most of the time, but when people upset you, you were abusive(this does not mean physically violent, it means verbeally). Other than that you were friendly, you like to mingle with people and ask A LOT of questions, some times I would beg you to be quite because you asked people real personal questions and it was embarassing at times.(Laughed) With the other kids I would bribe them with food and candy to get them to listen, but you hated food we had to beg you to eat and you would fight and cry becuase you didn't want to eat. You were quite, but you were always listening to people's conversations, even when they thought you were not listening. You were very caring and helpful, sometimes I think you tried to protect other people before you thought about yourself, none of your siblings were like that, it was always ME ME ME! (Laughing) If someone said they wanted to do something; you would get up and go do it for them. They were usually shocked, because they could not believe you were listening to them.(Laughing) You like to dance and dress up, you were very (Oman shebi omo obirin gon.= prissy) and you got a lot of attention.You read a lot, you love to do math problems and you like studying. Your teachers usually made comments like she is a very smart girl, she learns quickly. Her attitude is dominating, and she can be very mean at times, when people upset her.

This assignment was fun. It had me laughing so hard becuase a lot of what they said is still what I do and who I am today.







Interview of Five Friends....my BFF's! I did not choose them because they like me the most nor because I like them the most(just happens that I do~) but because they "Nomi" BEST!
What do you think are my gr8est gifts and strengths?
Stacey "Stace" *BFF*(My twin from another mother) says,

"Ur strengths I would say is your confidence, intelligence, strength (don't take stuff from no one), you are classy and just the opposite when it's needed and I love you for that. Need anymore? Cause I can go on...."








Cheryl"Iso" *BFF* (ATTITUDE TWIN!) says,
"Your strengths are that you are Strong willed, opinionated, self less, stubborn,
outgoing, self motivated, socail butterfly."




Bola "Bou-Bou" *BFF*(Poetic Justice, speaks on EVERY issue... PEACE CORPS...here she comes!!) says,









Katherine "Kit Kat" *BFF* (OMG, Always wants to know why?....neva settles for just
because!) says,"Your strengths are that you are independent, smart, and you don't let what people think or say affect who you are."




"Bamma" *BFF* ( unconditional love, understanding, patience, funny, lots of energy...) says, "Loving, caring, dedicated, loyal, honest sometimes a little too honest. hardworking, indepent, and shy until you're comfortable. You're a really good girl."



Latifu "Tee" Friend since forever(First childhood sweetie pie)says,"Your kind hearted, sweet, smart, cute, sexy, goal oriented. Goofy, Funny, Wise, Religious. You got the whole package."

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